One woman, who had been in an elegant white gown, pulled down her sleeves to expose her breasts to an interested crowd. A DJ put on a house remix of Lana Del Rey and people started to undress. Memorable performances included the ballerina, who took off her tutu to reveal she wasn’t wearing any knickers, and a man dressed as a cowboy dancing to Jamaroquai and bursting balloons on a naked woman.Īt 11pm, we were duly informed that the ‘dungeons’ were open, which meant that any sexual play could now take place. You can read more first time advice here.Īs well as general mingling, a cabaret show played on stage, with a variety of acts to get punters in the mood.

And if you’re not feeling it, just leave.

In his opinion, what goes on there is a bit more complicated than what we think of as swinging. There’s plenty you need to learn if you’re heading to a sex club (Picture: Getty Images/500px)ĭr Chris Haywood, who’s a reader in critical masculinity studies at Newcastle University, has gone to sex clubs specifically to research them in person. Another couple, who were in their thirties, found it helped spice up their sex life. The people I did chat to were friendly one woman, who was 29, told me she regularly went to sex parties to experiment with other girls.

I decided to let them crack on – no-one likes a third wheel, particularly not one with a dictaphone. Some of them were already kissing passionately in the small enclosed booths. It was a younger crowd, mostly couples in their 20s and 30s, mingled and chatted. Thankfully, prosecco at the venue was only about £6, so I knocked back a few glasses for Dutch courage (despite being warned ‘not to drink and kink’). I’m certainly no prude, having licked my fair share of peanut butter in my time, but I wasn’t sure how I was going to react at seeing so much sex in such an enclosed, magnified setting. The top-secret location of the ball was released the day before the event, and so I trekked with trepidation to the North East London nightclub with a sick feeling of nerves gnawing at my stomach.

My boyfriend didn't tell me he had HIV - I found out too late

2 girls sucking his brains out